Airplane Themed Party

I have found that the Military Aviation Museum in Virginia Beach rents their facility and will even have flight performances for specials events. I have not made contact with them yet to determine if they would consider a child's birthday party, but I think this would be a great setting for your little aviator's party. You could consider a trip to the museum and flight simulator or visit during one of their scheduled air shows as a party activity if you are not able to hold the party at the museum. Their admission fees are reasonable.